The Morning Abhyanga: A Ritual of Self-Love
I wake up most mornings before the sun rises. Not because I have to, but because I want to. Those quiet hours belong to me, and to a practice that has changed everything about how I move through my days.
Thoughts on rituals, healing, and the art of conscious living.
Written by Asavari Bhardwaj, Founder
I wake up most mornings before the sun rises. Not because I have to, but because I want to. Those quiet hours belong to me, and to a practice that has changed everything about how I move through my days.
My grandmother used to oil her hair every single week. I remember watching her, sitting cross-legged on the floor, working the oil through her long, thick braid. I thought it was old-fashioned. I was wrong.
There's something about mixing your own face mask that feels almost sacred. Maybe it's the act of creation. Maybe it's the intention you stir into it. Maybe it's just that it forces you to slow down.
I used to go to bed wired. Scrolling, thinking, planning, worrying. My body was in bed, but my mind was still running at full speed. Sleep was something that happened to me, eventually, out of sheer exhaustion.
I get headaches. The kind that start at the base of your skull and wrap around your temples like a vice. I used to reach for painkillers. Now I reach for oil.
For years, I took care of my face and ignored the rest of my body. I'd spend money on fancy face serums and then use whatever soap was on sale for my body. It made no sense.
One of the things I love most about Ayurveda is that it recognizes we're not separate from nature. We're part of it. And just like the seasons change, so do our needs.
Our hands do everything. They type, they cook, they clean, they create, they comfort. And we barely think about them until they hurt or crack or bleed.
I'm not usually a bath person. I'm a shower person. Quick, efficient, done. But once a week, I make time for a bath. And it's become sacred.
I used to think I didn't have time for self-care. I was too busy, too overwhelmed, too behind. And then I realized that's exactly when I need it most.